Thursday, February 27, 2014

Billionaire Jack Ma teaches you how to be successful in life and business

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Freaking emo today...

Billionaire Jack Ma, the founder and ex-CEO of Alibaba Group, as well as one of the most successful Chinese Internet entrepreneurs, shares his wealth of experiences.
Jack Ma: The mistake I regretted the most
In 2001, I made a mistake. I told 18 of my fellow comrades whom embarked on the entrepreneurship journey with me that the highest positions they could go was a managerial role. To fill all our Vice President and Senior Executive positions, we would have to hire from external parties.
Years later, those I hired were gone, but those whom I doubted their abilities became Vice Presidents or Directors.
I believe in two principles: Your attitude is more important than your capabilities. Similarly, your decision is more important than your capabilities!
Jack Ma: You cannot unify everyone’s thoughts, but you can unify everyone through a common goal.
  1. Don’t even trust that you are able to unify what everyone is thinking; it is impossible.
  2. 30% of all people will never believe you. Do not allow your colleagues and employees to work for you. Instead, let them work for a common goal.
  3. It is a lot easier to unite the company under a common goal rather than uniting the company around a particular person.
Jack Ma: What does a leader have that an employee doesn’t?
A leader should never compare his technical skills with his employee’s. Your employee should have superior technical skills than you. If he doesn’t, it means you have hired the wrong person.
What, then, makes the leader stands out?
  1. A leader should be a visionary and have more foresight than an employee.
  2. A leader should have higher grit and tenacity, and be able to endure what the employees can’t.
  3. A leader should have higher endurance and ability to accept and embrace failure.
The quality of a good leader therefore is his vision, tenacity, and his capability.
Jack Ma: Don’t be involved in politics
  1. One should always understand that money and political power can never go hand in hand. Once you are in politics, don’t ever think about money anymore. Once you are running a business, don’t ever think of being involved in politics.
  2. When money meets political power, it is similar to a match meeting an explosive- waiting to go off.
Jack Ma: The 4 main questions the young generation must ponder on
  1. What is failure: Giving up is the greatest failure.
  2. What is resilience: Once you have been through hardships, grievances and disappointments, only then will you understand what is resilience.
  3. What your duties are: To be more diligent, hardworking, and ambitious than others.
  4. Only fools use their mouth to speak. A smart man uses his brain, and a wise man uses his heart.
Jack Ma: We are born to live and experience life.
I always tell myself that we are born here not to work, but to enjoy life. We are here to make things better for one another, and not to work. If you are spending your whole life working, you will certainly regret it.
No matter how successful you are in your career, you must always remember that we are here to live. If you keep yourself busy working, you will surely regret it.
Jack Ma on competing and competition
  1. Those that compete aggressively with one another are the foolish ones.
  2. If you view everyone as your enemies, everyone around you will be your enemies.
  3. When you are competing with one another, don’t bring hatred along. Hatred will take you down.
  4. Competition is similar to playing a board of chess. If you lose, we can always have another round. Both players should never fight.
  5. A real businessman or entrepreneur has no enemies. Once he understand this, the sky’s the limit.
Jack Ma: Don’t make complaining and whining a habit
If you complain or whine once in a while, it is not a big deal.
However, if it becomes habitual, it will be similar to drinking: the more you drink, the stronger the thirst. On the path to success, you will notice that the successful ones are not whiners, nor do they complain often.
The world will not remember what you say, but it will certainly not forget what you have done.
Jack Ma’s advice to entrepreneurs
  1. The opportunities that everyone cannot see are the real opportunities.
  2. Always let your employees come to work with a smile.
  3. Customers should be number 1, Employees number 2, and then only your Shareholders come at number 3.
  4. Adopt and change before any major trends or changes.
  5. Forget the money; Forget about earning money.
  6. Rather than having small smart tricks to get by, focus on holding on and persevering.
  7. Your attitude determines your altitude.
Jack Ma on entrepreneurship
  1. A great opportunity is often hard to be explained clearly; things that can be explained clearly are often not the best opportunities.
  2. You should find someone who has complementary skills to start a company with. You shouldn’t necessarily look for someone successful. Find the right people, not the best people.
  3. The most unreliable thing in this world is human relationships.
  4. “Free” is the most expensive word.
  5. Today is cruel, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful.
Jack Ma: The 4 don’ts of entrepreneurship
  1. The scariest things about starting up is the inability to see, to be snobbish, to be unable to understand what is going on, as well as to be unable to keep up with pace.
  2. If you do not know where your competitor is, or overconfident and snobbish about your competitor, or are unable to comprehend how your competitor became a real threat, you will surely fall behind him. Don’t be the “they” in this idiom: First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.
  3. Even if your competitor is still small in size or weak, you should take him seriously and treat him as a giant. Likewise, even if your competitor is massive in size, you shouldn’t regard yourself as a weakling.
Jack Ma on starting your own company
What starting your company means: you will lose your stable income, your right to apply for a leave of absence, and your right to get a bonus.
However, it also means your income will no longer be limited, you will use your time more effectively, and you will no longer need to beg for favours from people anymore.
If you have a different mindset, you will have a different outcome: if you make different choices from your peers, your life will then be different from your peers.
Jack Ma on opportunities
If there are over 90% of the crowd saying “Yes” to approving a proposal, I will surely dispose the proposal into the bin. The reason is simple: if there are so many people who thinks that the proposal is good, surely there will be many people who would have been working on it, and the opportunity no longer belongs to us.
The article is originally published in Chinese, and is translated into English. If you think this was helpful, feel free to share it with your friends.
About Jack Ma: Jack Ma is a Chinese Internet entrepreneur. He is the Executive Chairman of Alibaba Group, a family of highly successful Internet-based businesses. He is also the first mainland Chinese entrepreneur to appear on the cover of Forbes Magazine and ranks as one of the world’s billionaires.Ma was named the Financial Times’ 2013 Person of the Year because he personifies the Chinese internet, referring to him as the “godfather of China’s scrappy entrepreneurial spirit.”.

How to be the boss i love

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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Day 57

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I guess it was just me being super emo yesterday that i could not think straight! Well i did say at the end of my post that there'll be no #100happydays post for yesterday but actually there is! 
I forgot that i bought movie ticket for tonight!! 

So this should be Day 51 of #100happydays



Fed up with all restaurants and sub standard food, today i decided to stick to my all time favorite food!! Chap fan

Omg! Best decision ever!! This empty box (not taking the inside picture as i am saving the world from losing appetite for food) is happiness!! Day 52 of #100happydays

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Day 56

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Today i fired a staff. Not exactly angry fire kind of firing a staff. I had to give him a non confirmation letter and ask him to leave the company in two weeks.

My first time. How i felt? I felt horrible. I hated it. I felt so bad that i have cause someone to lose a career/job/source of living.



I had images of chicken chop in my mind and i was drooling for mushroom soup. I thought food will cheer me up and i could take a picture for #100happydays.



This is what i left on my plate! The was two pieces of meat. I had to eat one for my money's worth wtf

By far the worst chicken chop i had ever eaten! Looks nice right? Oh yeah, that is because i added lots of soy sauce and pepper wtf. Initially it was served dry and it looked terribly overcooked and really dry with bits of flour stuff in patches!

I couldnt make myself eat the second mouth so i asked for sauce. Normally i order mushroom sauce because it is not so hot. It is usually a thick brown gravy and sometimes with some bits of mushroom in there right? And guess what? The mushroom sauce is the same as the mushroom soup i ordered!!! Wtf right?? How tasty would it be?

Well it did not make any difference to the horrible chicken chop and it only made matters worse! White tasteless liquid on hard dry overcooked chicken. 



See!! The mushroom soup and the mushroom sauce! 

So i gave up! Decided to ask for soy sauce. With that i managed to finish the first piece. That's it. I cant take it anymore! Even the mushroom soup also not nice. I only drank 1/5 nia.

Super fucked up dinner. I hated it. Now i still feel unhappy, and additionally guilty for wasting food and breaking my diet plan. Fml

And i wont have any #100happydays today! 

Monday, February 24, 2014

Day 55

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Day 46 of #100happydays
Yay!! Finally completed my proposal to bosses to review our company policy! I have been delaying and postponing this project so many times until i cannot accept it myself! Hahaha


Day 47 of #100happydays
After all these years of accepting that meituxiuxiu will resixe photo to be smaller size after editing, today i found out it is not true!!! So so  mitch's gf, jenny who is super love because she is so good at editing!

We can change the settings to make sure the photo size is not reduced! Well what to expect from a banana and those real chinese pun all dun care attitute and just rely on my teaching! Wtf!

Now i can edit and not worried about lousy quality!! 



Day 48 of #100happydays
Finally went for karaoke lunch! i haven't been to the karaoke for i thing almost 3-4 years!! It felt good!



After that i went to look for wedding favors! See how it feels like so that i can but from taobao amd ship it back! Cheaper ma!

Yay! Wedding favors kinda sorted out dy!! #PSiwedyou



Day 49 of #100happydays
Officially kicked start my bridal shop search. My first sop is at De Casamia ss2 all because there was this post in a forum that conplain about this shop being ridiculous! Hahaha!

Anyway  i found that the charges is above my budget some more cannot get back all my pictures! The SA says if want have to pay rm1500!! Wtf!


But i found a wedding dress thag i liked there! Made me look super thin and slim

Now i know A line cut heart shape tube gown really suits me!

Gonna have to look for more BS first to get quotes over the next few weekends.. Busy busy

#PSiwedyou



Day 50 of #100happydays
Started the morning super happy because i received this super nice gesture from my handsome boss!!  big value also plus point lah hahahahaa



Ah then of course even more happier when i received the beauty box i bought! 



And my funny colleague really brings up the happiness level! Already in her 40s still dunno what is her bra size or what is the meaning with the numbers 36,38,75,85,ABCD???

The above pics shows the meaning of ABCD in bra size labels not that bad la at least it had connection to the size



Then downfall of the day started with this! Apparently this guy can register wedding and i was hoping that he could do it in 31.08.2014!

Malangnya, he said he is not practicing already and this month was his last month! Haih.... I guess i need to pick a new date then... How about 09.09.2014??

#PSiwedyou



Had burger for dinner to cheer me up. Didnt work though.. Had some argument with boss when they wanted not to confirm a staff which we had just completed the confirmation process. Spoiled my whole day mood nia!

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Day 50

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Day 44 of #100happydays
Knowing that my ring is still intact for real! Wtf

No joke man! I had a terrible night dreaming about my ring!



Truth to be told! I was kind of unhappy how the jeweler resized my ring. It was really big when Pingu gave it to me so i had it resized smaller. Ended up it was too small for comfort as i didnt know that my finger could swell so much due to water retention in the morning.

So i got them to resize it bigger then. When i made it smaller, they took away a whole big chunk of white gold already. Then when i made it bigger, i thought they will insert a small chunk after they cut the bottom part.

NO! They did not do that. Instead they made it bigger by thinning my ring! I.e. the bands are thinner at the bottom part and also smaller in width. So now my ring has a weird proportion with thick and wide sides and thin and slimmer bottom.

I am not happy with it but i told myself, well it's his friend's mom shop so unlikely they are trying to cheat me so probably everywhere also the same when up sizing. Oh.. And also free service? Wtf

Also if you see on the next picture , the is a marking at the bottom of the ring. When i asked why got mark? They say they cant polish it further as if wanna remove the mark, they are worried the ring might be too thin and not strong anymore. Wtf right?

And.. And.. I realized few weeks later that they changed the design of my ring! Each side of the band is supposed to have one strand blurred rough surface and another normal shiny look. Nvm. When i male our wedding rings i complain!



Back to my dream. So i was happily playing with my ring and somehow held it the way like the pic. Gave it a lil squeeze and the ring BROKE!!! Broke into two like biscuit nevermind, the diamond also broke! Super wtf lo!

I think that time my mouth sure super big de can shove an orange in! Hahhahha i panicked!

After a long time panicking and stress cause dare not let pingu know abt it. End up giving the broken pieces to the jeweler son friend of his to 'kao tim' for me hahhahahah

Some more warn him not to let Pingu know and fast fast make it back like original for me! So demanding in my dreams.

Then woke up and realised it was all just a dream! Relived! *cold sweats.



Day 45 #100happydays
Started my project for this year's Valentine's Day gift. 



I was naughty yesterday before bedtime. Played jelly splash and could not get passed level 40 so i had to adjust the clock time ahead to get lives.



This morning i woke up almost getting a heart-attack! I thought i overslept and woke up at 10 o'clock! Omg! I panicked and rushed to get dressed for work like super efficient 10 mins kao tim everything ready to go!



Came down to my hall only to see this! I could not believe my eyes at first! I stared at the clock for some time and thought for a while. Then only realized i forgot to adjust back the clock yesterday!

Day 45 of #100happydays
Thank God i only adjusted 2 hours earlier!

Monday, February 17, 2014

Day 48

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My Valentines 



Day 42 of #100happydays
Went to Mid valley to survey price of cashier machine. Kind of expensive at Jusco as i found cheaper rates online.

Actually went to Origins first to try out their mini facial. Errr dun quite like it cause had to sit up and also i felt that my face was not properly cleansed due to lack of water use. But i kinda like their products though.. Smells good... In a natural way la not those perfume kind

Then went to Metrojaya to claim my voucher. Mad pissed off at the staff the email wrote to bring the email to collect, never say must print out! The staff insist to have the print out! Reason is the email say to bring the email wor.. I bring my phone show email cannot ah? Bring also what! Just because u wanna save a little on printing cost, now pass the cost to us ah? I had to walk so freakin far to print that one bloody page!cost me rm1.00 ok!



Day 43 of #100happydays
Yay! Made a decision on my wedding favors liao! Or at least the big part of it!

I will have two types of favors:
1. For the dinner guest, everyone will get one ready placed on the table
2. For family and friends who attend my morning ceremony bride and groom side

Much much earlier lao niang already fat hao thought of favors already. Must be after some movie, or some book or dunno what lah. What i wanted to give was according to Greek tradition called 'koufetta'

It is actually Jordan almonds or sugared almonds like the pic above. They are usually white in colour or pastel colours.

There is a meaning to the tradition:
1. Fresh almonds have a bittersweet taste, which represents life; the sugarcoating is added with the hope that the newlyweds' life will be more sweet than bitter.

2. They are placed in little bags in odd numbers because odd numbers are indivisible, this symbolizes that the newlyweds will share everything and remain undivided.

3. Five almonds signify five wishes for the bride and groom: health, wealth, happiness, fertility, and longevity.



In Malaysia these are not available or that i know of. Even if it is available, it would be expensive.

Suddenly i thought, WHY NOT USE M&M's ALMONDS? Bingo! That's it! It is the same as Jordan Almond and it can only be bought in Langkawi! Elsewhere in Malaysia also never sell leh! Exclusive~~~~ So sedap also! Yummy!

Set lah! I will buy this during my Langkawi trip with my gals.

Now,have to think of how to package the almonds. Cloth bag, paper box, plastic case or tin box?

#PSiwedyou

Friday, February 14, 2014

Day 45

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Day 38 of #100happydays
Bread story chicken floss bread

This was supposed to be the happy thing that happened to me on Tues ; it used to be! But so happen all the bread i bought that day was hard and not fresh!!

I was greedy and didnt believe that it could be so bad, i overate. Then i gagged myself later as i felt sick 

That day was a really bad day. Came home from work thought wanna buy chap fan, couldn't find parking.  Went another round. Found one tight spot in a super small road. Ok lah tried to park. Manatau one idiot drove so fast came behind me!  Make me stress and cannot park because i intended to do reverse park!

Fed up! Gave up and drove away! Then i found another parking in an akward spot, right at the entrance to the road. See left see right no car, so i thought i could take my own sweet time

Manatau just as i maneuver my car right into the middle of the T junction, fucking so many cars appear out of thin air!  Damn!!! I felt intense stress!! Super agitated i swear i could kill a cow that instant!

Then gave up again!  Really super angry with myself and at everything!! In the end gave up on chap fan and decided to buy bread instead!

Why? Why must it make it so difficult just for me to buy chap fan??? Whhhyyyyyy????

Then bread also taste like rock and so little chicken floss 



Sad, depressed and agitated, i came home and thought about my wedding to cheer me up!

It did! So i found this idea of replacing those guest book with a wedding tree! 

Looks pretty and i can frame it up to decorate my future home! 



I will put up a sign like this..
And probably also a sample to guide people what to do.

There will bound to be some breed of people who wont know what to do or worse, destroy my plan of having a pretty art piece!



A closed up sample like that maybe?

I can also draw the two lovebirds on! Good idea!



Day 39 of #100happydays
Finally i found a new owner for my Shampoo and conditioner set that i bought from Hokkaido.

I used to like the smell, but i don't anymore. It is also too rich for my scalp. So it was a month or two of torture for me to try to finish it off! Not able to make myself throw it away cause i lugged it back all the way from Japan leh!

Then today Ruxen asked me where i bought the 'orange bottle' from. Told him Japan and he was instantly sad

He liked it and wanted to buy. So i say i present it to him lah!  Wah!! He was like kena lottery! Hahahaa so happy.

He dunno, i lagi happy!! 

Then he told how he discovered it in my bathroom and he used it to bathe.. Wah so good smell he said.

“WAIT! What bathe??? This is shampoo leh! OMG!!”


Happy Valentine's Day!!!
Happy Chap Goh Meh!!
Also known as Chinese Valentine!
This only happens once every 19 years!! 
So it's double the !



Today marks our 5th anniversary being together! 
I have an announcement to make: We are getting married this year!

22.11.2014

Omg! I am so happy, so nervous, and it's like the most memorable Valentine's day for me!

No need flower, no need fancy dinners, no need expensive gift and i feel i have the best gift ever! To know the confirmed date that i will be married to the love of my life! 

Disclaimer: the above statement doesn't mean i don't like flowers, dinner or gift. In fact i love it to bits and everything that people i love give me! The more the better hahahhaha

It's just that this Valentine's day, Pingu is working and so this piece of news is making me feel so overwhelmed!

I feel really happy that we will soon start a new journey together as a family 



Day 41 of #100happydays
 Gotta get used to the 'lao por' word soon #PSiwedyou



Day 40 of #100happydays
Yay! Got the list of good dates to pick for our wedding!

Hmmm quite sad that there's no dates in December which is a weekend 

Still gotta pick a date cause all these are good dates to get married for both of us. Guess my choice of date. 

So now with the  coming up, i hope there will be loads of #100happydays to do. Easy peasy then! Hah!

I think i should start a hash tag for all our wedding related matter pictures. Once wedding is over i can do an album to document the whole process

yes. I am so sentimental like that. Well, it will be a happy occasion and IT'S MY WEDDING yo! It will be one of the few very important days of my life.

It shall be #PSiwedyou
 

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